Something we tend to forget is that everyone has their own goals and dreams. What makes one person happy, isn’t necessarily what is going to make another person happy. The world would be a pretty boring place if we were all the same; with the same goals, dreams and wishes.
Our differences are what make us interesting. People are generally attracted to people who share similar interests as them, but few people are looking for someone exactly the same. Best friends, couples, families, co-workers, classmates – they all bring different challenges and excitement to the relationship to make it amazing.
The problem with our world today is that not everyone can see this. So many people focus on the things that make them happy and expect that to be what everyone should want. They see others enjoying things that don’t make sense to them, and instead of respecting it – they judge.
No matter how much the world changes or how many people learn to accept things that are not familiar to them, there are always going to be those few that don’t. We can’t dwell on this. We need to spread our love and do what makes us happy regardless of what others have to say. If we’re being the best person we can be and pursuing the things in life that make us happy, we can’t lose.
So, don’t depend on others to make you happy. Be your own happiness and I promise, you will be the most delightful version of yourself.